A Celebration of Life: Broadcaster James Valentine Holds Living Wake
Surrounded by 180 guests, broadcaster and musician James Valentine, who was terminally ill, hosted a "living wake" on February 14, 2026, at the Clovelly Surf Life Saving Club.
A Perfect Send-Off
Planned as a celebration rather than a mourning, the event was described by Valentine's wife, Joanne Corrigan, as "the perfect day."
"It was the perfect day." — Joanne Corrigan
The gathering featured music from saxophonist Paul Williamson, a grand entrance by Valentine himself, and a heartfelt speech from the host.
The Program
Sarah Macdonald served as the Master of Ceremonies. The lineup of speakers included:
- Opera singer David Hobson
- Musician Peter Farnan
- Colleague Richard Glover
- Friends Sarah Hopkins and Lisa McGregor
The highlight of the afternoon, according to Corrigan, was the final speech delivered by Valentine's son, Roy. Additionally, each attendee received a rose from Valentine's daughter, Ruby.
Aftermath
Corrigan noted that following the event, Valentine remained energetic for approximately one week before his condition subsequently declined.
The Rise of the Living Wake
Living wakes are an emerging practice in Australia, often chosen by individuals facing terminal diagnoses or those planning to use voluntary assisted dying (VAD). Anthropologist Cindy Stocken traced the practice's roots to Japan and South Korea.
Danni Petkovic, a mortality doula, explained the significance of the ritual:
"Living wakes allow the dying to hear tributes and feel loved, and can aid the grieving process for attendees." — Danni Petkovic
Funeral director Ben Gibson observed that interest in living funerals is growing as death rituals become less traditional.
Broader Context
According to Stocken, in the 2024-25 period, VAD accounted for about 2% of deaths nationally, with a growing proportion among those dying from cancer and motor neurone disease.