Multiple Women Accuse Founder of "Real Love" Group of Inappropriate Sexual Behavior Under Guise of Therapy
Summary
Greg Baer, founder of the Real Love group, has been accused by multiple women of engaging in inappropriate sexual behavior—including naked holding and fondling—under the guise of therapeutic practices. The alleged incidents occurred over several years, with Baer targeting women seeking emotional support. Legal actions included lawsuits settled for $12,000 each, police investigations that did not lead to charges, and ecclesiastical proceedings by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
A Pattern of Allegations
Multiple women have come forward accusing Greg Baer, founder of the Real Love group, of engaging in inappropriate sexual behavior under the guise of therapeutic practices. The alleged misconduct included naked holding and fondling, which Baer reportedly presented as part of his treatment methods.
The alleged incidents occurred over several years, with Baer targeting women who initially sought emotional support and guidance. According to the accusers, some women initially viewed the behavior as parental or beneficial but later recognized it as grooming.
One woman, Veena, published a memoir detailing her experiences, providing a firsthand account of the alleged abuse and the psychological manipulation she says she endured.
Legal and Institutional Responses
- Lawsuits: Legal actions were taken against Baer, with cases settled for $12,000 each.
- Police Investigations: Law enforcement conducted investigations but did not file charges due to insufficient evidence.
- Ecclesiastical Proceedings: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints also held proceedings regarding the allegations.
Key Insights from Accusers
“Some women initially viewed the behavior as parental or beneficial but later recognized it as grooming.”
The accusers describe a gradual process of normalization, where what began as seeming therapeutic or paternal care evolved into inappropriate physical contact.
Context and Impact
The case highlights ongoing concerns about:
- The boundaries of therapeutic practices
- Power dynamics between counselors and vulnerable clients
- The challenges of proving grooming behaviors in legal settings
For those seeking support, resources are available through counseling organizations and advocacy groups for survivors of sexual abuse.