A Daughter’s Tribute: Steve Mortimer’s Gentle Legacy Lives On
Erin Mortimer, daughter of rugby league icon Steve Mortimer, has opened up about her father’s battle with dementia—painting a poignant portrait of the man behind the legend.
“His heart is still there. He still wants to help people.”
The former Canterbury-Bankstown Bulldogs and New South Wales State of Origin star was diagnosed with dementia at age 60. Now 69, Steve Mortimer resides in a care facility. But for his daughter Erin, the memories of the man he was remain vivid and cherished.
A Happy Childhood, Rooted in Small Gestures
Erin recalls a joyful upbringing, with her father actively supporting her interests in piano and dancing.
He would leave her a chocolate treat after her lessons—a small but meaningful gesture that spoke volumes.
During car trips, Steve’s musical tastes were eclectic: classical compositions, Coldplay, and Van Morrison filled the soundtrack of her youth.
A Father’s Presence, Across Oceans
After moving to the UK in 2011, Erin spent eight years there, marrying and building a life abroad. Despite his hearing difficulties, Steve attended her live music performances in London.
One of the most profound moments came in 2013, when Steve walked Erin onto the field before game one of the State of Origin series. There, she sang the national anthem—a memory she holds dear.
The Man Behind the ‘Mother Hen’ Nickname
Steve was always vocal about expressing love and pride. Erin notes that he never held back his affection.
“He would leave a glass of wine and snacks for his wife after late theatre shows.”
The family fondly nicknamed him “Mother Hen” for his constant, helpful nature—always looking out for those around him.
A Turning Point: Birth and Decline
Erin’s first daughter was born in early 2021. That same period coincided with Steve’s cognitive decline.
In response, Erin wrote Lullaby for the Old Man, which she performed on ABC’s The Piano. The song captures the emotional weight of that time.
A Gentle Relationship, Enduring
Today, Steve’s speech is limited, but his presence remains felt. Erin observes protective gestures he still makes toward her children.
She describes their relationship as gentle and lighthearted.
“His heart is still there,” she says. “He still wants to help people.”